The more facilities we create, the more we become dependent on them — eventually becoming slaves to our own comforts. For example, switching from an Indian-style toilet to a European water closet, or from a bicycle to a motorbike. These are examples of physical dependency.
Mentally, we are often influenced by those around us — people who own bungalows, cars, and other luxuries. Their possessions and the appreciation they receive can tempt us to pursue similar lifestyles. Very few people desire certain comforts purely out of personal interest without seeing others enjoy them first. Most people are driven by comparison, fearing they won’t be respected without matching others’ standards. This stems from ego, a desire for equal recognition, and a sense of insecurity.
Even when people achieve these external symbols of success, the happiness they bring is often short-lived. Over time, their importance fades, and the mind starts searching for the next thing it lacks — something others have but we don’t. This cycle never ends. Throughout life, we live with these expectations and anxieties.
Ultimately, what everyone truly seeks is uninterrupted happiness and a calm mind.
The following realizations can help people overcome this endless chase:
Some individuals aspire to have certain comforts purely on their own terms, not because others have them. However, even if they attain them, the novelty and excitement eventually fade. If one accepts this reality and chooses to live with that awareness, life becomes truly fulfilling.
Sadly, most people fail to realize that living in a village or small town — or even in a city with just the basic necessities — can offer immense peace. Simple food to satisfy hunger, a modest home to live in, basic clothing, and a bicycle for transport — these needs cost very little.
A friend of mine, who once earned over a lakh per month in Chennai, suddenly quit his job and settled in a village near Madurai. He invested his savings in fixed deposits and now receives around Rs. 8,000 per month as interest. He says that to live a simple, content life in his village, he needs only Rs. 5,000 to 6,000 per month. He is an excellent Tamil writer, and now spends his time writing articles and helping local villagers with social awareness initiatives. He is satisfied, undisturbed, and living a beautiful life — all at a monthly cost of just Rs. 5,000 to 6,000.
This level of mental peace and contentment is something even 1,000 crores cannot buy.
People are aware of this pleasure — but very few implement it.
That is why it remains the MOST UNDERRATED PLEASURE.