Everyone’s nature is different. You might like someone, but they may have different preferences and not like you back. That’s just how life works. Similarly, someone else might like you, but you may not feel the same way.
The problem often arises because of the ego. The mind questions, “Why don’t they like me?” This ego-driven thought keeps you stuck, making you want their approval. The more you try to get closer to them, the more they may pull away, thinking you have some hidden agenda. It’s not about love—it’s about your ego struggling to accept their lack of interest.
So, how do you overcome this? It’s all about controlling your thoughts. Stop letting your mind develop on them. Whenever thoughts of that person arise, consciously redirect your focus to something else. Remember the saying: “Out of sight, out of mind.”
If possible, distance yourself physically from them. If that’s not an option, try to avoid being around them. Over time, the absence will help you gradually forget them. Start spending time with other people and engaging in new activities.
As you build connections with others, they will become your focus, and the person you were fixated on will fade from your thoughts.
By following this approach and staying consistent, you will move on and find peace.
